PIERPAOLO PAPARO
Paris 75016

Counselling and Psychotherapy

Email: hello@selfdiscoveryways.com

Website: https://www.selfdiscoveryways.com

Phone: +353 87 683 5182

Face to face and online therapy
with Google Meet and MS Teams

Languages: English and Italian

 

Profile
I am an Italian psychotherapist based in Paris, offering therapy in English and Italian online and face-to-face in Paris 16 for expats, internationally mobile adults, and professionals living in France. I work with people navigating anxiety, stress, OCD, overthinking, relationship difficulties, life transitions, and the emotional challenges that can come with living abroad.

Many of the people I work with appear to be coping well from the outside. Inside, however, they may feel overwhelmed, disconnected, caught in repetitive patterns, or exhausted by the pressure of holding everything together. Living in another country can add another layer to this: questions of belonging, identity, uncertainty, loneliness, language, cultural adjustment, and the feeling of having to rebuild parts of your life away from familiar supports.

My understanding of these experiences is shaped not only by my clinical training, but also by my own personal and professional journey across countries and cultures. Before retraining as a psychotherapist, I worked in asset management and quantitative finance. This helps me understand the pressures many professionals carry: responsibility, performance expectations, decision-making, and the challenge of appearing capable while feeling very different internally.

My interest in psychotherapy deepened while living in Ireland, following the end of my marriage and a significant period of life transition and personal growth. That experience led me to explore mindfulness, psychotherapy, and the process of building a more honest and meaningful relationship with myself and my life. It continues to shape the way I work today: practical, grounded, and connected to real life rather than abstract theory.

My work is grounded in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, known as ACT. ACT is an evidence-based approach that helps people develop psychological flexibility: the ability to work differently with difficult thoughts, emotions, uncertainty, and inner pressure, while taking steps towards what matters. I also integrate humanistic and integrative psychotherapy, mindfulness, somatic approaches, psychodynamic understanding, and Exposure and Response Prevention when working with OCD.

I do not believe therapy is about eliminating difficult emotions or endlessly analysing problems. Instead, I aim to help clients understand the patterns that keep them stuck, learn practical psychological skills, and build a more workable relationship with themselves, others, and the life they are trying to create in France.

Therapeutic Approaches

• Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
• Humanistic and Integrative Psychotherapy
• Exposure and Response Prevention
• Mindfulness-Based Approaches
• Somatic Approaches
• Psychodynamic-Informed Therapy

Specialities

• Anxiety
• Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
• Stress and Burnout

Areas of Expertise

• Trauma
• Overthinking and Rumination
• Life Transitions and Change
• Relationship Difficulties
• Self-Esteem and Confidence
• Expat and International Living Challenges
• Identity, Purpose and Meaning
• Perfectionism and High Self-Criticism
• Feeling Stuck and Loss of Direction
• Adjustment to Life in France

Qualifications

• MA in Psychotherapy, Dublin Business School
• Higher Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy, Dublin Business School
• Certificate in Counselling and Psychotherapy, PCI College
• Mindfulness Teacher Training, Shamash Alidina

Professional Memberships

• MIAHIP
• MBACP

Siret: please ask